Letting go of Ego is not an easy thing. If you try to fight it, it will fight back. So what can we do? Well just become aware of when your ego mind is talking, you’ll recognize it easily. That part of you will always want to make an issue of things. It will want you to take things personally; it will want you to take offence. It will want you to stay in fear. It will want you to have expectations that things must be a certain way. It will want you to be disappointed when they’re not. Ego mind will lead you away from the heart. It will be focused on things and possession, on external sources of momentary happiness, quick fixes, quick highs. And if you continue listening to your ego, you’ll feel empty inside, in between these artificial highs that you’ve become addicted to. Your life will have no meaning, no purpose. I know.. I was there in that hell for far too many years.
What does your heart desire? To love and be loved? How do you do it? Stop listening to the ego chatter, one thought at a time. Tell your thoughts to go talk to the hand! Say next, not welcome! You are not your thoughts but you can become them. Start switching to the type of thoughts that bring you peace, that bring you joy. Let go of rigid expectations, allow things to unfold as they will, just be, accept, observe not judge, stop trying to get everything your way, stop trying to control people and things. Relax, leg go. Let go of the illusions, there is only a problem if you make one in your mind. Choose to be in the company of those who are more heart based than ego, or they will bring you back to that level of vibration. Ego is a low energy frequency. Heart is a high level frequency. Ill health is low level frequency, so watch your thoughts if you are ill or becoming ill. Wellness is a high energy frequency; you can help yourself stay well with the right kind of thinking.
If you stay in you Ego mind, nothing will ever be enough for you, even if you were given the world on a platter, you would still want more, you can never satisfy the ego mind. It’s important to know that you will never, ever, have inner peace, as long as you allow the ego to rule your life.
Heart is different; you become more peaceful, more accepting and at one with your world and all in it. You are easily satisfied and grateful for the basic things. From here you can develop unconditional love. You can even love the haters. You no longer need to be right because that’s an ego thing. And you know that not having to be right, doesn’t necessarily mean that you are wrong. You release the need for such things, it’s ok to just be. This brings you peace, this brings you happiness, which cannot be affected by what you have or don’t have. It cannot be affected by people or things. They no longer have any control over you…. and you become free. It is so empowering… Heaven on Earth…. Goodbye Ego… I’m not missing you x